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Passion for the profession: Marijke Kars

Passion for the profession: Marijke Kars

In the 'passion for the profession' section, we ask healthcare professionals what drives them to dedicate themselves to pediatric palliative care. This time Marijke Kars is speaking. She is a senior researcher at the Julius Center of UMC Utrecht.

Which case from the past motivates you to this day to dedicate yourself to pediatric palliative care?

“Especially my PhD research on parenting and palliative care in pediatric oncology. This took place around 2006 and focused on parents who stayed at home with their child suffering from incurable cancer and who received care there. I found it shocking to see what challenges the child and parents faced at home and how little adequate care was available in the home situation at that time. Everyone was of good will, but it was not possible to have the care actually take place at home. As a result, children suffered more and the parents in our study felt abandoned.

It became clear how many areas of tension there are in (paediatric) palliative care. Just how parents shape their parenting and how they try to be there for their child. On the one hand there is the desire to keep your child with you, on the other hand there is the need to let him/her go.

We saw through the research that things really have to and can be done differently. We wanted to connect care provision and what child and family needed. We wanted to bridge the gap and organize palliative care properly. That still motivates me a lot. Then we also became aware of the need to pay attention to the goals and preferences of children with a progressive disease and their parents and to discuss these at an early stage: advance care planning. Our research team has developed a method for advance care planning conversations, with children and parents, and the method is finding its way into practice.

How did you get into pediatric palliative care?

“Actually, I have always had an eye for the problems surrounding the end of life. I started my career as a district nurse, then a pediatric nurse and then I worked in the Children's Intensive Care Unit. I come from a time when death was much more shrouded than now. When I was still in training, a child died during childbirth. At that time, a child was taken away from its parents. However, these parents had indicated that they wanted to see their deceased baby. I then brought their child to the parents. At that moment I experienced how important it is that parents can hold their child and, as it were, drink his identity. This experience made me more sensitive to this theme and I believed that more could be done than what we did.

Gradually I started to focus on research. I work at the Julius Center. This is a division in the UMC Utrecht that focuses entirely on research. There I started my PhD research on parenting and palliative care in pediatric oncology. This made me one of the first in the Netherlands to conduct scientific research in pediatric palliative care. Prompted by the conversations with parents, I saw the need for change and then I joined the PAL Foundation, which has since been transferred to the Knowledge Center for Pediatric Palliative Care.

At my kitchen table, the contours were also sketched for what is now the Emma Home Team. I find it extremely valuable that they can also come home to the child and family. They can help set up what is needed. Very nice to see how they have developed further and that there are now also seven Children's Comfort Teams.

In the meantime, qualitative research within (child) palliative care has become my expertise. This focuses on experiences, perceptions and meaning of patients (and their loved ones). The patient perspective is extremely important. How do they deal with their condition / illness in their lives? How do they experience their situation? So very close to the practice. In this way we understand better and better what pediatric palliative care is all about.”

How do you view the ethical side of your research?

“I certainly wondered whether you should entrust parents with research at such an incredibly difficult and vulnerable period in their lives. Because our research team speaks with parents throughout the entire palliative process, up to and including shortly after the death of their child. It is important to handle this very carefully. In our research, we notice that an interview really demands a lot from parents, but that it also brings something to them. There is a kind of reflection. What parents gave back to us is that they enjoy being able to tell their story and feel free to share their thoughts because the researchers themselves are not the ones who provided the care for their child. In their experience, what the parents said has no direct consequences for the treatment process or anything like that.”

What are your next steps in pediatric palliative care?

“My next step is to gain even more insight into the position of children. How can we make them stand out better? How do we give them a voice? We are currently completing the advance care planning project. We see many reasons for further research on this subject and the voice of the child can also be a good part of that.

We are really making enormous progress within the field of (child) palliative care. Although it remains a barrel full of contradictions. It is great how this subject has developed from 'difficult to discuss' to a phase in which the perspective of the child and parents is increasingly emerging and there is more and more room to discuss things with each other.

In addition, it is very nice that there is a scientific committee for children's palliative care, of which I am a member, that works together - and that has a good connection with the Knowledge Center for Children's Palliative Care. We must proceed carefully. Don't ask too many questions, but do research into what matters. We owe this to the group of children in need of palliative care and their families. This way we can develop progress together.”

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